There are times when we humans take our relationship for granted and lose the essence and the feeling of that bond between the two loses the spark. This is something really not accepted and sounds weird. It also does no good in the long term relationships. The relationships are based on the strength of trust, faith and loyalty towards our partner. Even if we fail to go along, the next efforts must be happily put in to save the relation and make our partner happy, may be by a certain act that would be comforting and soothing for the partner. There is huge amount of impact that the bonds and relationships that we humans share amongst ourselves.
Ella Wheeler Wilcox once made a statement that goes so true with the relationship saga which is as follows: "There is one sad truth in life I've found While journeying east and west - The only folks we really wound are those we love the best. We flatter those we scarcely know, we please the fleeting guest, and deal full many a thoughtless blow to those who love us best."
Ella Wheeler Wilcox once made a statement that goes so true with the relationship saga which is as follows: "There is one sad truth in life I've found While journeying east and west - The only folks we really wound are those we love the best. We flatter those we scarcely know, we please the fleeting guest, and deal full many a thoughtless blow to those who love us best."
No relationships exists without its ups and downs, and it is essential for both the individuals in the relation, at different times to handle the delicate situations in the relationship and bring the remembrances of the happy times so that the relation grows healthily which continues to live and last forever, and the relationship is well maintained among the individuals. There is no harm in bending before the partner one has always loved and shall continue to do so by putting in a little more effort, at times, which would not only bring back the spark but also create a memory.
The times of the presence and the essence of the partners without uttering of the words are the best moments one has into the bonds of relationship. One must maintain the sanctity, which are the reasons to enjoy and rejoice at several points in life. The best of what I have come across are the moments when me and my wife go unspoken and share the fondest glances, have a great dinner at dining table, holding hands of each other, and eating and assisting each other. These are the great and lovely times we both really cherish. Even at times when we are angry at each other, the anger vanishes away and we turn to each other and share a warm hug. This is the glory of touch, which makes wonders to happen while remaining silent. We always have our turns of making each other feel important with that amazing feeling of touch. Gracias. This is the reason we need to have an impact on each other and create lovely memories together.
Thus, from my own experiences and listening to my friend's relationships experiences, what I have come to know is there are so many important things in life which can be done silently to make back into the relationship and having the merrier times spent together, by experiencing the warmth and the essence into the relationship. It is important to value each other and understand the importance of being with each other. The bonds have a huge impact and they tend to last forever and ever.
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