Life is an experience and we all as humans should try and make it a beautiful one for our own self and also for the others. It is a great fact to realize which even I have come to believe is that only once in our life that we find someone who can turn our world around, makes things look brighter and easier, and everything is seemingly perfect state. It is then that we can tell them about the times and things that we have never shared with any other mate with the faith that they would absorb and sink in within themselves of whatever we would say and shall accept without any judgements, creating a comfort zone which is one of a kind.
Well, with all the expectations that everyone carries into one's mind, I am going to propose my crush with the best of hopes and faith because I have known him quite decently now. There are a lot of reasons which is why I am going ahead with the proposal without waiting for him to come forward and propose me, for I am 21st century woman, where I can make things happen and plan accordingly, by taking decisions for my own self. What I have planned is to go out for an outing following dinner. Outing because I have been comfortable in exploring and going out to places with him. We have liked each others company and have been great friends for quite a long time now. So one finds strength in knowing oneself having a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. The only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of our life.
I would discuss with him about my proposal and shall propose him during the discussion and shall leave the decision to be made by him, only if he is ready, without any imposing or emotional scene. For it is not something that can be imposed. Love is a free flow of emotions and is unbound.
We all know it so well that this life is what we make it, no matter what, there would be times in our lives when we would be messing up the things, for they are the experience that teach us the better execution. Let us all accept it as a universal truth.
The best part about it is that we get to decide how we are going to mess it up. Girls and the guys will definitely be my friends, they will act like it anyways. But there are some things to be absorbed, with whom we can let ourselves flow. There are ones that stay with us through everything - they are our best buddies. We should not let go of them. As for lovers, they come, make their way and go too. We need to be ready to face the rejections too, much like the way we are ready to be accepted. Giving up on our own self is never a wise choice. Just because we fail at times in our life, does not mean that we fail at all times in life. We must keep trying and try to hold on. So keep the head high, keep the chin up, and most importantly, with a smile, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about, I would go with the decision that he would be taking for the proposal.
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